Thursday, December 12, 2013

10 Ways – Own Your Life!!!

Today I woke up with a little vengeance against all the difficulties introduced to me in one way or another by my good old pal, life. It can be pretty frustrating how you’re overthrown by seemingly ingenuous yet lousy clichés of life in a matter of seconds. People who don’t even matter to you, interfere at such high standards I tell you that you get entranced by their hypocrisy following them like a lost puppy. And the irony is that, you think you’re in complete control of your life, when in reality you’re not. Today, I decided is going to be a new day and thought of sharing how is it going to be, with all the affected out there. Let’s kick some life, I say!

Take Control:
Life gets so fast and complicated at times that it can sweep you right off your feet. If you’re tangled in all those crummy routines that intend to do nothing but hide away your uniqueness, your spark, then it’s evident that you have left control of your life. Get rid of all the unnecessary obligations and indulge yourself in the things you love, you like to do. Get your life on track on your terms and you will start living your life as before you were just being led by it. Take my word, you get this right and the rest comes easy.

Get Inspired:
After taking control, its time to get inspired! Try new things and get amazed at what life has in store to offer you. This doesn’t mean that you have to look at the successful people around you and humor yourself with all those materialistic and conventional benefits. You’ll be satisfied only momentarily and the next thing you know, you’ll be back on the train of losing control.

Getting inspired is easy, you can get inspired by all sorts of things. Look at the sunset, wonder the skies, play with colors, take aimless walks, plunge yourself in the world of dreams, in short, try to take a view of all the invisible things that you’ve been missing out. As it is said, “All the effort in the world won't matter if you're not inspired.”

Insinuate Inner Peace:
Life is too short to live with regrets, this is the most common statement used by everyone around us. But how to let go off these regrets? Do they tell you? No, they don’t and I discovered the answer when I watched Kungfu Panda. J Master Shifu taught me the secret which was to find inner peace with your past. You can’t change whatever happened so the only way is to outgrow it and live on. Rise and shine as they say, forgive yourself if required and take on life with a brand new approach as if you were born yesterday, free of regrets.


Be Fearless:
People who are afraid to stand up to others and are afraid to look life directly in the eye sleep with their worst of nightmares right under their own pillow. Such people can never advance in life because fear is instilled in every part of their conscious. They are afraid of their mortal fellow beings just because they are unaware of their own true self. My take, for once, please just for once believe in yourself and be fearless, life will work its magic and illustrate the most incredible of its miracles right in front of your eyes.

Take Risks:
Life is dull when there is no excitement left in it. It should be full of challenging roads to unknown destinies. I say one should get out there and go crazy literally. Don’t be scared of things that involve risk because if you don’t try, how will you know what secret life has hidden for you in it? People think it’s better to play safe i.e. to eat, work and provide is their simple strategy. No doubt that playing safe has its own perks but if you love what you do, then it’s bound to engage the adventurous genes of mankind. Start saying yes to all the opportunities that come your way. Live like there’s no tomorrow is the best way to summarize this.

Declare your Independence:
When someone is dependent, he/she is forced to live under someone else’s rules and regulations. It’s like you owe everything to the person on whom you are dependent. Although this dependency is for a limited time but some people plan to live with it for the rest of their lives, which is a shame. If you’re not independent then how will you know freedom? It is the one of the best feeling to be free and enjoy life without knowing any limits. If you haven’t declared your freedom, then I bet its time.

Lead Optimistically:
The world has already become one of the meanest of places in the universe, so there’s absolutely no room for anymore. The stench of negativity is so intense that it clearly devours the fragrance of hope now. Being judgmental and critical just for the sake of it, is the most practiced ritual of human race these days. The best way to deal with such encounters is to act the complete opposite of it. So, spread some positive vibes and make them believe that the glass is half full and not empty. Live and let live, people please. J

Talk, Eat and Walk Happiness:
Embracing optimism will make you see a whole new different world full of beautiful people and emotions, same way the rainbow shows up after heavy rainfall. And when you see the good in everything, you will radiate happiness. You will appreciate and accept each and everything life throws back at you, whether it be a hoard of obstacles then or showers of blessings. In short, you will talk, eat and walk happiness very soon.

Smile Away:
You often find smileys in my articles because that’s my center. Believe me I remove most of them while proofing my articles and that’s why you get to see only one or two of them or maybe more. J Point is, no matter what life has put you through, you got to live it so why not live it with a smile on your face. You must be thinking, being happy and smiling away is the same thing. No, it’s not! Give it a more profound thought to it and you will know.

Love & Nurture Life:
Own your life but own it with love and nurture it with the utmost care as it’s the most prized possession of oneself. Life is so fragile that it can slip away in jiffies and you won’t even know about it. Take it this way; you love your partner and will go beyond the boundaries to protect their life, so why not love your own life? I believe that a person who love their own self should only be eligible to extend the hand of love to others because they definitely know the worth of such a powerful emotion.


With this, we come to the end of another article. You all probably know all these facts but the thing is you just need to reinforce them in order to not only take the ownership of your life but also enjoy it a tad bit more. God bless you all and have nice day! J

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